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Veteran: counseling taught value of mental health

An army veteran's story about learning how to value his mental health

Jerell Johnson on learning how to talk about depression – “I came to feel that my mental health was something to be valued”

Editor’s Note: This “First Person” feature with army veteran Jerell Johnson on depression as told to Kitty Rodriguez, was conducted in Los Angeles, Calif.

RAISED IN A DANGEROUS neighborhood without a lot of positive role models, when I was 18, I took it upon myself to make sure I got out of South Los Angeles. Joining the military after graduating from high school seemed like the best and quickest way to leave the stress of my environment.

I always knew without a doubt in my mind that I didn’t want to become a stereotype — dropping out of school at a young age, falling into a gang, or getting a girl pregnant. At some point, I just came to a realization that there were two paths I could take in life. One was that I could stay in the community of South L.A., stuck with the negative emotions that the neighborhood brought out.

Or, I could leave. So that’s what I did.

It’s not that I had no positive influences in my life growing up. My grandparents were a huge part of my life, and they impressed upon me the importance of reading and getting an education while at the same time giving me a place to escape to mentally. They exposed me to different kinds of books and music that [helped] me realize that there was more to life than just my block. They always tried to give me a new book every time they saw me.

Books became my biggest [fixation]. They helped me drift away from what was my daily life. I remember taking the bus to the downtown Los Angeles Library as a young kid, commuting an hour to and from just to get away from home. I’d only leave the library when it was closing time.

I didn’t feel like I belonged at home or that I could relate to the people that surrounded me in my neighborhood. The answer to everything was to “man up!” South L.A. was a place where talking about your feelings just wasn’t done.

It was joining the military that really opened my eyes to the fact that I was dealing with depression. Talking to other soldiers made me realize that what I was feeling was completely normal. I realized I wasn’t alone.

I’d never thought to go to counseling until it was offered to me when I was deployed to Qatar [in the Middle East]. I figured I needed it; not so much because of what I went through in the military, but just in general. I came to feel that my mental health was something to be valued. I couldn’t just let all of the negative emotions in my head take over my life.

When I registered in the military, I never thought my mother and sister would turn their backs on me for doing it, or that my girlfriend at the time would have infidelity issues. When I came home I wanted to help my family get out of living in South L.A., but they weren’t interested. Coming back home and having to face so many obstacles in my life, I felt that I needed guidance. Going to therapy became my way of getting back into society, instead of turning to alcohol or drugs.

I was eventually prescribed an antidepressant [that] definitely helped me relax and kept me in a happier mood. After awhile I no longer wanted to be dependent on the medication so I decided not to take it anymore. But talking to a counselor has really helped me accept everything that has gone on in my life and given me the tools to move forward.

I decided to leave the military and go back to school. The books were calling to me again. I began to feel like the Army wasn’t my home anymore. I was using it to get away from who I was, and away from the world I knew. I’ve been a Pierce College student for five years and now I’m transferring to California State University, Los Angeles, and I’m in pre-law.

There’s a reason why some people have to work so hard and why they take so long. There’s a battle you have to fight internally. You have to overcome yourself in order to get to where you’re going.

I’ve tried to get my family out of South L.A. ever since I left there. It’s tough to think about them; they’re in the grip of a certain kind of environment and I can’t get them out of it. So, I’m doing what I can to just show them there’s another path.

This article was made possible by New America Media’s community college initiative on youth depression with support by the California Healthcare Foundation. Additional support for expanding ethnic and youth media coverage of mental health issues comes from The California Endowment, The California Wellness Foundation, The Orchard House Foundation, The Parnassus Fund, The Arthur Rock Foundation, The Wallace A Gerbode Foundation, and The Zellerbach Family Fund.

Courtesy New America Media.

 

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